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Set up an iPhone child

This guide is for when your child’s device is an iPhone. It works whether you, the parent, use Android or iPhone yourself. The parent app looks and works the same on either platform.

Setting up an Android child instead? See the Android setup guide.

iPhone setup steps

1

Add your child

From the parent app’s Home screen, tap + Add Child. Enter your child’s name and pick an avatar, then tap Add Child.

→ This takes you straight to a pairing code for their device. (Shown here on an Android parent phone; identical on iPhone.)
✓ Your child now appears in your family
Tasks4Access Add your child screen with the avatar builder: choose Kid or Teen, Boy or Girl, a hairstyle and a skin tone, with a live preview of the avatar
2

Get a pairing code

The Connect device screen shows a 6-digit pairing code. You’ll enter this on your child’s iPhone in the next step.

⚠ The code expires after 10 minutes. Tap Regenerate code for a new one if it runs out.
✓ You have a live 6-digit code ready to enter
Tasks4Access Connect device screen showing a 6-digit pairing code, an expiry countdown, and a Regenerate code button
3

Connect your child’s device

On your child’s own iPhone, install Tasks4Access and open it. On the first screen, tap the Connect this device tile, then tap Continue, enter the 6-digit pairing code from step 2, and tap Connect.

✓ “You’re connected” shows on your child’s device
Tasks4Access Enter your code screen on iPhone with a 6-digit code field and a Connect button
4

Set a removal PIN (optional)

Because your child’s device is iOS, your own parent screen offers one extra step here: an optional PIN your child will need to remove an app from “My Apps” later, so they can’t quietly undo a restriction. Tap Set a removal PIN, or Skip for now; you can add one later from device management.

✓ You’ve either set a PIN or chosen to skip it
Tasks4Access You're connected, Daniel! screen on iPhone, shown on the child's device right after pairing
Tasks4Access Connect device screen on the parent's phone, Emilie's device is connected, with a Set a removal PIN option and a Skip for now link
5

Turn on protection

Your child’s device explains how Tasks4Access works, then reaches Set up protection. This asks for Apple’s Screen Time (Family Controls) permission, used to show a lock screen for restricted apps. It never reads message content.

Tick the confirmation checkbox, then tap Allow Screen Time access to grant it through Apple’s own prompt.

Keep this switched on. Locking only works while Tasks4Access has Screen Time access. If it is ever switched off on your child’s iPhone (Settings, Screen Time, Apps with Screen Time Access), apps stop being locked, even though the ones you chose still show as chosen. Switch it back on, or open Tasks4Access and tap Allow Screen Time access again, and your dashboard will show protection as on once the iPhone has reported in.

If one app will not lock, check Apple’s own list on your child’s iPhone (Settings, Screen Time, Always Allowed). An app on that list will not lock (we saw TikTok stay open until it was taken off). Take it off the list, then open Tasks4Access on that iPhone for a minute and try again.

→ The screen updates to “Protection is on” once granted.
✓ The screen reads “Protection is on”
Tasks4Access Set up protection screen on iPhone with the Screen Time permission explained, the confirmation checkbox ticked, Protection is on, and an Allow Screen Time access button
6

Your child chooses the apps that are never locked

From your child’s Home screen, they open My Apps. Step 1 of 2 is “Choose the apps you never want locked”. These stay open all the time, even when a task locks other apps. Good examples are Life360, Messages and FaceTime.

They tap Choose apps and pick single apps in Apple’s own picker. A whole group like “Social” cannot be a never-locked app. If there are none, this step can be skipped. Then they tap Next.

You can also tap Always allow under an app when you create a task in the parent app, and that app shows on your child’s phone as “Never locked (set by your parent)”; only you can change those.

⚠ If you restrict a whole category, every app Apple groups into it is restricted too, unless it’s marked never locked. This matters most for messaging or location apps a child might pick into a broader group by mistake.
✓ The apps appear under “Never locked”
Tasks4Access My Apps screen on iPhone, step 1 of 2, Choose the apps you never want locked, with Choose apps and Next buttons
Apple's own Choose Activities picker on iPhone with FaceTime, Life360 and Messages selected
Tasks4Access My Apps screen on iPhone listing Never locked apps, Messages and FaceTime, each with the note Never locked. Tap to let it be locked, and an Add more apps button
7

Your child chooses the apps that can be locked

Step 2 of 2 is “Choose the apps that can be locked”. Your parent picks from these when they set a task, for example Snapchat, Instagram or games. Your child can pick single apps or whole groups like “Games”, then types a name for each one, because Apple doesn’t let Tasks4Access see app names. Your parent finds them by those names.

→ Important: this step does not restrict anything. It only makes an app available for you to restrict later. Your child cannot decide what gets locked. Apple hides real app names from every third-party app, including ours, unless the device’s own user adds them this way first, which is why this has to happen on your child’s device rather than yours.

Your child taps Submit. An optional Help prevent app deletion link explains how to use Apple’s Screen Time settings to stop your child deleting Tasks4Access. It also stops the deletion of other apps, so read it before turning it on.

✓ Your child sees “All set”, with the apps listed under “Can be locked” and “Never locked”
Tasks4Access My Apps screen on iPhone, step 2 of 2, Choose the apps that can be locked, with Choose apps, Back and Submit buttons and a Help prevent app deletion optional link
Tasks4Access Name what you picked screen on iPhone with a text field for each newly picked app
Tasks4Access Help prevent app deletion screen on iPhone, an optional guide to Apple's Screen Time settings, with a warning that it also prevents deleting other apps
Tasks4Access All set screen on iPhone listing the apps that Can be locked and the apps that are Never locked
8

Choose which apps to actually restrict

Back in the parent app, open Create & Assign, choose your child, and pick from the apps they’ve added to “My Apps” under Apps to restrict. Choose Timed or Permanent, then tap Create task.

→ You decide what’s restricted here, the same way as on Android. Steps 6 and 7 only decided what was available to choose from.
✓ The task appears on your child’s device, and the app(s) it restricts are now locked
Tasks4Access Create and Assign screen on Android with Daniel chosen, the apps to restrict set to Entertainment and Social, Permanent unlock selected, and a Create task button
9

What your child sees

If your child opens a restricted app before the task is done, Apple’s own Screen Time shield shows in its place.

✓ The restricted app shows “Restricted” instead of opening
Apple's own Restricted Screen Time shield on iPhone, showing You cannot use Instagram because it is restricted
10

Your child submits the task

Once the task is done, your child taps Submit on their task card. They can optionally attach a photo, or tap Submit without a photo.

✓ The task shows “Submitted, waiting for your review” on your dashboard
Tasks4Access on iPhone showing Empty Dishwasher marked Submitted under Waiting for Parent, with the Entertainment and Social apps still locked
11

Review and approve

In the parent app, open Approvals, tap the submitted task, then tap Unlock Permanently (or the timed equivalent) to approve it, or Needs More Work to send it back with a short note.

✓ The task moves to your Approved list
Tasks4Access Review task screen on Android for Empty Dishwasher showing Submitted, waiting for your review, the Entertainment and Social apps, and Unlock Permanently and Needs More Work buttons
12

The app unlocks

As soon as you approve, the app or apps that task restricted become available on your child’s device, with no extra step on their end.

✓ Your child’s Home screen shows “Nothing locked right now”
Tasks4Access on iPhone showing Hi Daniel, 3 of 3 tasks approved, Nothing locked right now, and Empty Dishwasher marked Approved

Need something else?

See how the full journey looks in the app walkthrough, check the FAQ for quick answers, or head back to Setup & Help.